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Disagreement can be beautiful!

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In the past, we usually do not encourage disagreement when we lead and guide our children. However, I just learnt that disagreement can be beautiful! It is good to lead our children to be honest about their doubts, lead them to bring all their questions/doubts to God, wrestle with life issues and not just let them go. When I learn to bring doubts/questions before Him rather than keep them in my heart, He revealed and cleared my doubts not immediately but in His time. This help to increase my faith in Him!

Unexamined and unquestioned faith often does not survive the questions raised in their later year.
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  1. jean fongFebruary 12, 2010 at 4:48 PM

    To be able to agree in disagreements is a mark of maturity in Christ because we(parents)now learn to 'give way' to children's opinions.

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